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| Alec Ideker’s Wish is Granted
by Jill Funke
While mitochondrial diseases are usually not detected until a child is a little older, physicians began to suspect that Alec Ideker of Harrisburg had some form of the condition when he was only 5 weeks old. Mom and dad, Stephanie (Blauwet) and Brad Ideker, were alarmed when the first day from the hospital, their tiny baby boy began having seizures. At just over one month of age, Alec was thought to have complexes 1, 4 and 5 of mitochondrial disease. As the couple researched the condition, and gathered information from the medical professionals, the Idekers learned that mitochondrial diseases happen after failures of the mitochondria, which are specialized compartments in almost every cell of the body. Mitochondria create more than 90% of the bodies energy, which fuels growth and sustains life functions. Upon the failure of the mitochondria, cells have less and less energy and can experience injury and death. As this process continues throughout the body, systems will fail. The cells of the brain, heart, liver, skeletal muscles, kidney and endocrine and respiratory systems see the most damage. Because of the damage and cell death that accompany mitochondrial diseases, the life expectancy of those who have the condition is 4 to 10 years. At three-years old, Alec experiences multiple types of seizures including infantile spasms seizures. Since birth, he has never had a day free of seizures, and there are many days when there are too many seizures to count. In addition, Alec has problems with his respiratory system, gastrointestinal system, and neuromuscular system. He is fed through a g-tube, cannot walk, crawl, roll or talk. However, this special little boy has the ability to touch the hearts of his family and everyone who meets him, and those close to him have learned to communicate with him both verbally and nonverbally. Alec’s big brother, Aaron, loves him with his entire heart. At age five, Aaron has never been jealous of the attention his brother requires each day. Stephanie says that he realizes the limitations that Alec has and the family discusses the time when Alec will go to heaven and meet Jesus with a new working body. Alec’s situation is serious enough that the Idekers qualified for the Make-a-Wish of South Dakota program. The Make-A-Wish Foundation of South Dakota makes wishes come true for children facing life-threatening medical conditions. Fifty to sixty children each year are granted a wish at an average cost of $5000 each. After applying for the program and supplying physician verification of Alec’s condition, the Make-A-Wish of South Dakota program’s board approved Alec’s wish, which was to visit the Disney parks. To make trips and other wishes possible, the Make-A-Wish of South Dakota program relies on businesses and individuals to adopt the wishes of the children it serves. Luckily, the Minnehaha Country Club adopted their wish, sending the Idekers to visit their favorite Disney characters in Florida. In January, in time to celebrate Alec’s 3 rd birthday, the family flew to the coastal state. Unfortunately, Alec starting becoming ill before they left and after landing in Florida, and wound up in the hospital. Graciously, the Make-A-Wish organizers lengthened the family’s trip, and made all of the arrangements for them to stay a little longer.When Alec was well enough to leave the hospital, he and Aaron began meeting some very famous people and characters. Alec’s favorite was Donald Duck, who held Alec’s hand and made a real connection with him. The family also got to visit Sea World and Universal Studios. During their vacation, the Idekers were thrilled to be able to stay at Give Kids the World. Give Kids the World is a nonprofit village where Make-A-Wish families often stay when they visit Disney World. Stephanie raves about the village and says it will not soon be forgotten. The family will also remember forever their Make-A-Wish trip, as it was an experience of a lifetime for both Alec and Aaron. In dealing with the challenges of caring for a special needs child, Stephanie says that she and her husband have found a great deal of support and understanding from parents of other children with mitochondrial diseases. The couple feels that both of their children are gifts from God and are thankful for each day they spend together.
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